When the child is small, he doesn’t do any work. About his food, clothing and the like concerned parents. Parents help their child with love. The child does not work — he can do only a little job around the house. But how this work compares with the work or the costs that parents do it for him? If, as an adult, the child does not understand what his parents gave him, it is a great ingratitude.
Before parents punish the child’s physical, and he took corporal punishment without thoughts [resentment]. Often he doesn’t even know what hit them. But the children of today — this is one big “why and what for?”. One continuous wrangling. They lack simplicity. Everything they are subjected to judgment and evaluation. But the divine Grace in this way does not come. If the child does not feel his father’s father and does not accept his father’s punishment, he — illegal child. Some children, only parents to make them a little note, immediately begin to threaten: “I’ll slit my wrists!” And what can parents do? They are inferior, and ultimately children deteriorate and die.
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Child stealing is a quite common problem, frightening for any parent who is faced with it. Although almost any child, including their own parents in childhood, at least once took someone else’s, adults usually tend to panic if it happens to their child.
There are several reasons why children steal:
If it’s a small child, 3-4 years, usually he doesn’t understand boundaries, where my, where someone else. In this age of child stealing cannot even be called such a term, because the child is not aware of property boundaries.
Not high enough self-esteem of the child. This child thinks that the other is always better.
The motivation is to attract the attention of peers: the child has no relations with peers in kindergarten, at school, in the yard, and the child, finding no other solution, you may take the money and buy a variety of sweets, treat all these friends, getting the attention and recognition he so wanted and waited. Typically, these thefts tend to make children 6-8 years of age and adolescents.
Theft may be a way of self-affirmation of the child, and this is also a signal of distress, when the child does not feel enough love of parents towards him or even each other.
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Parents should be aware that sexual, sexual, parenting preschoolers, school children and adolescents — the need for a healthy psychosexual development of the child, for the formation of psychologically and emotionally Mature person.
However, most parents, because of their own upbringing, strongly ignore if you don’t confront, early sex and sexual education of children, which, in turn, can lead to incomplete and sometimes distorted and inadequate development of a person’s identity, including gender and sexual development.
Not hard to guess where sex and sexual deviations. perversion, sexual orientation, early and unexpected pregnancy. venereal diseases, impotence and frigidity. abortions and miscarriages, single mothers, abandoned children, and finally, the fall of the demographics, and what’s worse, the gradual disappearance of the intellectual and creative resources of the person.
Primary cause: improper upbringing in the family, including the lack of adequate gender and sexual education of children of preschool age .
Sex education for children preschoolers
Most modern parents, themselves educated in sexual Continue reading