Many children go through a period – between two and four years – when the beats and biting is a form of communication, often the only one to Express this or that in their condition, for example: “I am angry”, or “I want this”. Not having even the power of speech and, thus, not knowing how else to Express their wishes and requests, they tend to resort to using his fists or sharp baby teeth.
Despite the fact that this is a normal stage of child development, such aggressiveness can turn into a habit. Children who, growing up, learn to suppress their aggression and to communicate with others using oral speech, often become real fighters. Through the fights, the children can produce their own things to which they aspire, but it will make them outcasts in the children’s company and other kids will be afraid of them.
If your child is in this phase of development, he may soon pass her. To bring this point (and to help protect other children!), you can use the tips that will help your child get rid of aggressive habits.
If you see your child, not yet begun to walk to school, hit another, first go to his sacrifice. Raise a hurt child and say, “Igor didn’t want to hurt you”. Then hug him, Continue reading
The earthly guardian of the girls became governess Elizabeth Kardel, which not only taught the basics Princess of knowledge, a passion to her book, but she had given the girl a lot of important moral lessons that largely defined its attitude to life. Catherine II was not the monster that it used to represent and are often still in the hands of unscrupulous contemporaries and descendants. But she was a real person, with all the inherent human feelings and weaknesses. Mother, who took away the child, wanting to take revenge, she decided to raise her grandson taking it from the parents. Paradox just say that for the benefit of Alexander the First it not get. However, the pedagogical system developed by Catherine for grandchildren, Alexander and Constantine, however, was a good cause – she brought in this difficult and delicate a matter as the raising of the Imperial children of the reasonableness of the classification, the lack of which had already begun badly to give myself to know. The first and main principle is that special attention was given to those postulates that scooped himself from Orthodox morality: “Try in all cases to instill in children a love for mankind and even compassion for every creature.”. “.Who has neither Continue reading
Child stealing is a quite common problem, frightening for any parent who is faced with it. Although almost any child, including their own parents in childhood, at least once took someone else’s, adults usually tend to panic if it happens to their child.
There are several reasons why children steal:
If it’s a small child, 3-4 years, usually he doesn’t understand boundaries, where my, where someone else. In this age of child stealing cannot even be called such a term, because the child is not aware of property boundaries.
Not high enough self-esteem of the child. This child thinks that the other is always better.
The motivation is to attract the attention of peers: the child has no relations with peers in kindergarten, at school, in the yard, and the child, finding no other solution, you may take the money and buy a variety of sweets, treat all these friends, getting the attention and recognition he so wanted and waited. Typically, these thefts tend to make children 6-8 years of age and adolescents.
Theft may be a way of self-affirmation of the child, and this is also a signal of distress, when the child does not feel enough love of parents towards him or even each other.
Another reason for theft: the desire to take Continue reading