Just to warn you that to take up the matter with the attitude “Oh, and difficult child I got in trouble!” is not worth it. Your task is not to remake it, but to help him open up . as a person. If the little man will grow in a comfortable and friendly environment, it is unlikely to have a desire to engage her in a conflict. A new consent will be provided.
To raise children-Indigo cautious with five “Golden” rules.
Rule # 1: Communicate
The phrase “Leave me alone, I don’t have time!” eliminate from your vocabulary once and for all. At least in relation to child-Indigo. It is very simple. Imagine that one day the child on all your requests and questions for him to answer exactly the same. Pleasant enough, isn’t it? Therefore it is better not to set a bad example. Your age superiority does not entitle you to speak with the child down. He is your continuation. Here and talk to him as you would talk to yourself. Learn to hear him, and he will learn to listen to you.
Talks with children-Indigo all your actions . If you’ve decided to take the child to the rink, describe in detail how you came up with such a wonderful idea. If you’re going to pull it from the computer, also try to find convincing arguments. Instead of the terrible cry of “just You wait Continue reading
The earthly guardian of the girls became governess Elizabeth Kardel, which not only taught the basics Princess of knowledge, a passion to her book, but she had given the girl a lot of important moral lessons that largely defined its attitude to life. Catherine II was not the monster that it used to represent and are often still in the hands of unscrupulous contemporaries and descendants. But she was a real person, with all the inherent human feelings and weaknesses. Mother, who took away the child, wanting to take revenge, she decided to raise her grandson taking it from the parents. Paradox just say that for the benefit of Alexander the First it not get. However, the pedagogical system developed by Catherine for grandchildren, Alexander and Constantine, however, was a good cause – she brought in this difficult and delicate a matter as the raising of the Imperial children of the reasonableness of the classification, the lack of which had already begun badly to give myself to know. The first and main principle is that special attention was given to those postulates that scooped himself from Orthodox morality: “Try in all cases to instill in children a love for mankind and even compassion for every creature.”. “.Who has neither Continue reading
Child stealing is a quite common problem, frightening for any parent who is faced with it. Although almost any child, including their own parents in childhood, at least once took someone else’s, adults usually tend to panic if it happens to their child.
There are several reasons why children steal:
If it’s a small child, 3-4 years, usually he doesn’t understand boundaries, where my, where someone else. In this age of child stealing cannot even be called such a term, because the child is not aware of property boundaries.
Not high enough self-esteem of the child. This child thinks that the other is always better.
The motivation is to attract the attention of peers: the child has no relations with peers in kindergarten, at school, in the yard, and the child, finding no other solution, you may take the money and buy a variety of sweets, treat all these friends, getting the attention and recognition he so wanted and waited. Typically, these thefts tend to make children 6-8 years of age and adolescents.
Theft may be a way of self-affirmation of the child, and this is also a signal of distress, when the child does not feel enough love of parents towards him or even each other.
Another reason for theft: the desire to take Continue reading