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How to be, if a child Masturbates?

Children’s Masturbation: norm or pathology?

You caught your child playing with genitals? You were so shocked and appalled that he did not know how to respond? What it is: a fun, promiscuity or illness?

About the dangers of children’s onanism (Masturbation) lots of talk, mostly unfounded.

Before, the baby begins to explore all parts of his body. He does not understand that the body has “forbidden” places. If we remind him about it, his curiosity increases, and can turn into a pathological habit.

Often Masturbation is characteristic of active children, “slowpokes” just suck your thumb or the edge of the blanket.

Usually parents are too embarrassed to seek advice from professionals. While Your wrong reaction can harm, maim the child’s life.

How to respond to children’s Masturbation?

First of all, if You ever caught your child for a lesson in Masturbation, no need to faint or scream, stomp their feet.

Requires endurance and tact. If it’s a small child, try calmly, without emotion to shift his attention to something else.

With school-age children also need to be calm, to talk about it when he’ll be able to listen to You. But in any case, do not scold the child, and do not be intimidated!

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Aggression in young children

Many children go through a period – between two and four years – when the beats and biting is a form of communication, often the only one to Express this or that in their condition, for example: “I am angry”, or “I want this”. Not having even the power of speech and, thus, not knowing how else to Express their wishes and requests, they tend to resort to using his fists or sharp baby teeth.

Despite the fact that this is a normal stage of child development, such aggressiveness can turn into a habit. Children who, growing up, learn to suppress their aggression and to communicate with others using oral speech, often become real fighters. Through the fights, the children can produce their own things to which they aspire, but it will make them outcasts in the children’s company and other kids will be afraid of them.

If your child is in this phase of development, he may soon pass her. To bring this point (and to help protect other children!), you can use the tips that will help your child get rid of aggressive habits.

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The Passion for computer games is in trouble or blessing?

In the last decade, computer – tera rapidly infiltrated into our lives. Imagine a modern person, who may, without prejudice to themselves, to distance themselves from the computer and the Internet, it is impossible. Today it has become customary to see that a person interacts with a com – pewter constantly – at work, at home, in the car and even on the plane. The computer is becoming an essential – part of modern life, not only adult but also children.

Many parents mistakenly believe that it’s better for the child sits at home on the computer in front of them than going out with the wrong crowd. Thus, the child receives a free and unrestricted access to the computer.

But the advent of computers, “provoked” the emergence and computer games, which immediately found a lot of fans among children and adults. Today, computer technology has reached a level of development that allows you to create very realistic game with good graphics, color and sound, which entails an increase in the number of people fanatically fond of computer games – gamers (from the English “game” – game).

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