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About the respect and love of children to parents

When the child is small, he doesn’t do any work. About his food, clothing and the like concerned parents. Parents help their child with love. The child does not work — he can do only a little job around the house. But how this work compares with the work or the costs that parents do it for him? If, as an adult, the child does not understand what his parents gave him, it is a great ingratitude.

Before parents punish the child’s physical, and he took corporal punishment without thoughts [resentment]. Often he doesn’t even know what hit them. But the children of today — this is one big “why and what for?”. One continuous wrangling. They lack simplicity. Everything they are subjected to judgment and evaluation. But the divine Grace in this way does not come. If the child does not feel his father’s father and does not accept his father’s punishment, he — illegal child[1]. Some children, only parents to make them a little note, immediately begin to threaten: “I’ll slit my wrists!” And what can parents do? They are inferior, and ultimately children deteriorate and die.

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How to overcome the dependence of the child from computer games

Often watching as a child addicted to a computer game, parents are sounding the alarm and wonder, will affect whether computer games negatively on the psyche of a teenager? Are they able to cause computer addiction? Whether it is necessary to forbid the child to play? The situation clarifies psychologist Julia Donets.

– Julia, you have about 7 years in private practice. How often do you turn to parents with the problem of computer addiction in the child?

– Any addiction – it is the escape of a person from solutions to life’s challenges that he faced. Actually appeals to psychotherapists with symptoms of computer addiction can be counted on the fingers. According to statistics, in the face of serious difficulties, children and adolescents are more likely to resort to alcohol and drugs, and not the computer.

– Why alcohol and drugs remain in first place in solving teenage problems?

The alcohol helps the teenager to return to an earlier stage of development in which he couldn’t care less about me, and he has a right not to be responsible for anything in his life, shifting responsibility to others. The computer gives the same level of regression, which is called alcohol and drugs.

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Cause sleepless nights or Why Your baby doesn’t sleep through the night

Baby, fast asleep all night, awake and alert mom… This is not a dream.

Gwyneth Paltrow says that her baby started sleeping through the night since 6 weeks. We will not investigate how this information is true, but a sleepless night most parents – an undeniable fact.

We will try to understand in what the reason and if it’s that bad, really?

Consultants will be made by authoritative experts: Peter Fleming, Professor of the University of Bristol, specializing in health and psychological development of children and Darcia F. Nerves, Professor of psychology at the University Norms the Ladies.

Why do children Wake up? Because there can be no

Nature is not provided for a long period of sleep for the person as such. And there is no evidence of positive effects on the body long sleep.

Even adults don’t sleep through the night

An adult during their 8 hours of necessary sleep will also periodically wakes up. Effect of fatigue and a busy day on the eve of consciousness is not always captures these revivals, and we can simply not remember.

A human child is born before any other plecoptera and in dire need of close contact with the “external uterus”

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The Development of thinking in children of preschool and younger school age
Advise parents and professionals "the Best educational games for kids online" What we call thinking In everyday life under the thinking usually understand verbal reasoning. In psychology, this concept has…

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Psychological tests
The method allows to find out a complete and differentiated picture of parent-child relationships from the perspective of adolescents. The test instruction The text of the questionnaire in writing is…

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The education of the child in a single-parent family.
According to demographer A. G. Volkov, among preschool children every tenth child is brought up by one parent, and among children of school age — one in seven. Today among…

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