Children’s Masturbation: norm or pathology?
You caught your child playing with genitals? You were so shocked and appalled that he did not know how to respond? What it is: a fun, promiscuity or illness?
About the dangers of children’s onanism (Masturbation) lots of talk, mostly unfounded.
Before, the baby begins to explore all parts of his body. He does not understand that the body has “forbidden” places. If we remind him about it, his curiosity increases, and can turn into a pathological habit.
Often Masturbation is characteristic of active children, “slowpokes” just suck your thumb or the edge of the blanket.
Usually parents are too embarrassed to seek advice from professionals. While Your wrong reaction can harm, maim the child’s life.
How to respond to children’s Masturbation?
First of all, if You ever caught your child for a lesson in Masturbation, no need to faint or scream, stomp their feet.
Requires endurance and tact. If it’s a small child, try calmly, without emotion to shift his attention to something else.
With school-age children also need to be calm, to talk about it when he’ll be able to listen to You. But in any case, do not scold the child, and do not be intimidated!
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Any person who is engaged in personal growth or spiritual development, is faced with the question of the relationship with parents. It appears to be happy and live life to the fullest, you first need to resolve this issue. The Scriptures teach that it is impossible to achieve any success in spiritual life, having a bad relationship with their parents. In Orthodoxy, for example, even has a separate commandment concerning this issue: “Honour thy father and thy mother: that thy days may be long upon the land which the Lord thy God giveth thee” (Exodus 20:12) .
I have a complicated relationship with her mother, a very different Outlook on life. So I was wondering what we have to their parents . and what is not. This really interesting information I found. She has placed all points over i, I became clear about my responsibilities as a daughter, to parents. What we have to their parents, and what is not required?
To recognize their parents. This means to say that these people are my mom and dad. Even if one or both left me and didn’t raise. Even if one of them we don’t know. In any case, this man or woman is our parent. The Lord gave us life through this man. It means that there is a deeper meaning, which we may foolishly be understood not yet in force. To take them. Accepting means to stop build the illusion that I could be other parents. What my parents Continue reading
Your child loves your father or your mother?
Very often the child more love not Papa and Mama, and prefers to spend time with her. Accordingly, the father worries about that. And sometimes the opposite situation occurs: the child loves daddy more.
Any change in the child’s behavior has a logical explanation. We rst consider the situation when the child loves the mother . than dad. This is quite typical.
The kid spends more time with his mother. Him with her calm, comfortable, he feels protected. And since dad most of my time at work, the child spends little time with him.
For the father has earned the love of his child, need to make some changes in the behavior of the Pope.
The child is more like mom than dad
If a child grows up “Mama’s boy”, and his father is not pulling, then the problem lies precisely in the behavior of the Pope . Should something change in your behavior towards the child, and you will notice how the kid will be attracted to you.
Devote free time to the child and not the computer
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