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Can’t love their parents

To start, answer this simple question. If your parents were ordinary people, not members of a family, for example, a work colleague, or neighbor in the apartment, we would support you with them a friendly, warm relationship? If YES, then quit, because this article is not for you. If not, and back to ask me: – if you can’t love your parents, whether you WANT them to love? If you want to love, but can’t, then I ask you – why do you need to love them? Yes, for what?

Maybe for what you NEED them to love? But if so, who needs? If you are, then WHY NEED to love someone? Maybe because it made? But by WHOM TAKEN? WHO IS THIS “SOMEONE”? Can a society? If so, remember at least five people approving it. Personally I can’t think of one person. If you still find five people, it is definitely not the company, for a total of five people.

The fifth commandment of Moses: “Honour thy father and thy mother: that thy days may be long upon the land which the Lord thy God giveth thee”, says it is about the respect for parents that can be regarded by people as, “love your parents”, and to form public opinion. If so, then love and respect, not quite the same concept. For example, I can respect, but not love. But, if I love, and respect at the same time.

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The family tradition of education in the Imperial family

The earthly guardian of the girls became governess Elizabeth Kardel, which not only taught the basics Princess of knowledge, a passion to her book, but she had given the girl a lot of important moral lessons that largely defined its attitude to life. Catherine II was not the monster that it used to represent and are often still in the hands of unscrupulous contemporaries and descendants. But she was a real person, with all the inherent human feelings and weaknesses. Mother, who took away the child, wanting to take revenge, she decided to raise her grandson taking it from the parents. Paradox just say that for the benefit of Alexander the First it not get. However, the pedagogical system developed by Catherine for grandchildren, Alexander and Constantine, however, was a good cause – she brought in this difficult and delicate a matter as the raising of the Imperial children of the reasonableness of the classification, the lack of which had already begun badly to give myself to know. The first and main principle is that special attention was given to those postulates that scooped himself from Orthodox morality: “Try in all cases to instill in children a love for mankind and even compassion for every creature.”. “.Who has neither Continue reading

Let childhood ripen in children

Love — is the way of living of children and animals.

How to love your child? Seemingly stupid question. We all love their kids as best they can. But there is another – why is it so often happens that our favorite kids growing up, moving away from us, and we lose them spiritual contact and understanding? And here we should ask ourselves – but do we really understand their baby?

We present excerpts from a wonderful book Sarani and Nina Nekrasova “Cease to bring up children — help them grow”:

“… you can be a good parent, raising a child in between, so that you and the child have enough, and to feel like a person. Here it is important to learn just one secret: kids don’t need you “gave them the best years of life” and all the life on them. The only thing that they need — it is your unconditional love. “

“If your love for her child is unconditional, … you can easily give children what they need most . And these are just three simple things:

· respect;

· trust;

· safety.

Three components that will make a loved one happy”.

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