Many children go through a period – between two and four years – when the beats and biting is a form of communication, often the only one to Express this or that in their condition, for example: “I am angry”, or “I want this”. Not having even the power of speech and, thus, not knowing how else to Express their wishes and requests, they tend to resort to using his fists or sharp baby teeth.
Despite the fact that this is a normal stage of child development, such aggressiveness can turn into a habit. Children who, growing up, learn to suppress their aggression and to communicate with others using oral speech, often become real fighters. Through the fights, the children can produce their own things to which they aspire, but it will make them outcasts in the children’s company and other kids will be afraid of them.
If your child is in this phase of development, he may soon pass her. To bring this point (and to help protect other children!), you can use the tips that will help your child get rid of aggressive habits.
If you see your child, not yet begun to walk to school, hit another, first go to his sacrifice. Raise a hurt child and say, “Igor didn’t want to hurt you”. Then hug him, Continue reading
Just to warn you that to take up the matter with the attitude “Oh, and difficult child I got in trouble!” is not worth it. Your task is not to remake it, but to help him open up . as a person. If the little man will grow in a comfortable and friendly environment, it is unlikely to have a desire to engage her in a conflict. A new consent will be provided.
To raise children-Indigo cautious with five “Golden” rules.
Rule # 1: Communicate
The phrase “Leave me alone, I don’t have time!” eliminate from your vocabulary once and for all. At least in relation to child-Indigo. It is very simple. Imagine that one day the child on all your requests and questions for him to answer exactly the same. Pleasant enough, isn’t it? Therefore it is better not to set a bad example. Your age superiority does not entitle you to speak with the child down. He is your continuation. Here and talk to him as you would talk to yourself. Learn to hear him, and he will learn to listen to you.
Talks with children-Indigo all your actions . If you’ve decided to take the child to the rink, describe in detail how you came up with such a wonderful idea. If you’re going to pull it from the computer, also try to find convincing arguments. Instead of the terrible cry of “just You wait Continue reading
Children’s and adult psychologists for many years engaged in the study of the influence roditelskogo education on the lives of children. A direct causal link between parents ‘ and children’s behavior can be difficult to install. Often found that in different circumstances grow people with similar personal characteristics, and in the same family can grow strikingly different children.
Anyway, many traits of an adult is laid in his childhood, and depend on a huge number of factors, including individual characteristics of the child, society, popular culture and so on. In the so-called “pure” parenting techniques are not used, and in the same family can often use techniques from different methods.
Basic parenting styles
The style is characterized by high expectations of parents regarding their children. Children must follow strict rules unquestioningly, punishment is used often and they are rarely distinguished from the discipline. The usual explanation of the parent requirements: “Because I said so (a)”. Love, respect and warm relationships to children in an authoritarian family to wait for a difficult choice, ranging from toys to their future profession, Continue reading