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How to raise children-Indigo?

Just to warn you that to take up the matter with the attitude “Oh, and difficult child I got in trouble!” is not worth it. Your task is not to remake it, but to help him open up . as a person. If the little man will grow in a comfortable and friendly environment, it is unlikely to have a desire to engage her in a conflict. A new consent will be provided.

To raise children-Indigo cautious with five “Golden” rules.

Rule # 1: Communicate

The phrase “Leave me alone, I don’t have time!” eliminate from your vocabulary once and for all. At least in relation to child-Indigo. It is very simple. Imagine that one day the child on all your requests and questions for him to answer exactly the same. Pleasant enough, isn’t it? Therefore it is better not to set a bad example. Your age superiority does not entitle you to speak with the child down. He is your continuation. Here and talk to him as you would talk to yourself. Learn to hear him, and he will learn to listen to you.

Talks with children-Indigo all your actions . If you’ve decided to take the child to the rink, describe in detail how you came up with such a wonderful idea. If you’re going to pull it from the computer, also try to find convincing arguments. Instead of the terrible cry of “just You wait Continue reading

How to overcome the dependence of the child from computer games

Often watching as a child addicted to a computer game, parents are sounding the alarm and wonder, will affect whether computer games negatively on the psyche of a teenager? Are they able to cause computer addiction? Whether it is necessary to forbid the child to play? The situation clarifies psychologist Julia Donets.

– Julia, you have about 7 years in private practice. How often do you turn to parents with the problem of computer addiction in the child?

– Any addiction – it is the escape of a person from solutions to life’s challenges that he faced. Actually appeals to psychotherapists with symptoms of computer addiction can be counted on the fingers. According to statistics, in the face of serious difficulties, children and adolescents are more likely to resort to alcohol and drugs, and not the computer.

– Why alcohol and drugs remain in first place in solving teenage problems?

The alcohol helps the teenager to return to an earlier stage of development in which he couldn’t care less about me, and he has a right not to be responsible for anything in his life, shifting responsibility to others. The computer gives the same level of regression, which is called alcohol and drugs.

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Sex education for children

Parents should be aware that sexual, sexual, parenting preschoolers, school children and adolescents — the need for a healthy psychosexual development of the child, for the formation of psychologically and emotionally Mature person.

However, most parents, because of their own upbringing, strongly ignore if you don’t confront, early sex and sexual education of children, which, in turn, can lead to incomplete and sometimes distorted and inadequate development of a person’s identity, including gender and sexual development.

Not hard to guess where sex and sexual deviations. perversion, sexual orientation, early and unexpected pregnancy. venereal diseases, impotence and frigidity. abortions and miscarriages, single mothers, abandoned children, and finally, the fall of the demographics, and what’s worse, the gradual disappearance of the intellectual and creative resources of the person.

Primary cause: improper upbringing in the family, including the lack of adequate gender and sexual education of children of preschool age .

Sex education for children preschoolers

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