Children’s Masturbation: norm or pathology?
You caught your child playing with genitals? You were so shocked and appalled that he did not know how to respond? What it is: a fun, promiscuity or illness?
About the dangers of children’s onanism (Masturbation) lots of talk, mostly unfounded.
Before, the baby begins to explore all parts of his body. He does not understand that the body has “forbidden” places. If we remind him about it, his curiosity increases, and can turn into a pathological habit.
Often Masturbation is characteristic of active children, “slowpokes” just suck your thumb or the edge of the blanket.
Usually parents are too embarrassed to seek advice from professionals. While Your wrong reaction can harm, maim the child’s life.
How to respond to children’s Masturbation?
First of all, if You ever caught your child for a lesson in Masturbation, no need to faint or scream, stomp their feet.
Requires endurance and tact. If it’s a small child, try calmly, without emotion to shift his attention to something else.
With school-age children also need to be calm, to talk about it when he’ll be able to listen to You. But in any case, do not scold the child, and do not be intimidated!
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Parents should be aware that sexual, sexual, parenting preschoolers, school children and adolescents — the need for a healthy psychosexual development of the child, for the formation of psychologically and emotionally Mature person.
However, most parents, because of their own upbringing, strongly ignore if you don’t confront, early sex and sexual education of children, which, in turn, can lead to incomplete and sometimes distorted and inadequate development of a person’s identity, including gender and sexual development.
Not hard to guess where sex and sexual deviations. perversion, sexual orientation, early and unexpected pregnancy. venereal diseases, impotence and frigidity. abortions and miscarriages, single mothers, abandoned children, and finally, the fall of the demographics, and what’s worse, the gradual disappearance of the intellectual and creative resources of the person.
Primary cause: improper upbringing in the family, including the lack of adequate gender and sexual education of children of preschool age .
Sex education for children preschoolers
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Children’s and adult psychologists for many years engaged in the study of the influence roditelskogo education on the lives of children. A direct causal link between parents ‘ and children’s behavior can be difficult to install. Often found that in different circumstances grow people with similar personal characteristics, and in the same family can grow strikingly different children.
Anyway, many traits of an adult is laid in his childhood, and depend on a huge number of factors, including individual characteristics of the child, society, popular culture and so on. In the so-called “pure” parenting techniques are not used, and in the same family can often use techniques from different methods.
Basic parenting styles
The style is characterized by high expectations of parents regarding their children. Children must follow strict rules unquestioningly, punishment is used often and they are rarely distinguished from the discipline. The usual explanation of the parent requirements: “Because I said so (a)”. Love, respect and warm relationships to children in an authoritarian family to wait for a difficult choice, ranging from toys to their future profession, Continue reading