The girl should be quiet, economical and accurate, its merits – a docile and gentle nature, and the main objective – to marry well, become a model housewife and have children. And this is not a description of the methods of education of the Middle ages – this Patriarchal realities of modern Ukraine, where the girls forget to tell that they’re individuals and can build your life, career and family, not being dependent on men. Therapist of Leonid Semakov believes that in this way one of the girls raise free staff.
The middle ages in 2012
When I was preparing for an interview on this topic, to be honest, I doubt that the problem of educating girls in a Patriarchal style now just as relevant as, for example, 30 years ago. But was unpleasantly surprised to find many tips for raising girls frankly humiliating display. For example, how about this: “Educating a girl can do without such approvals as “good”, “well done”, “clever”. Such words of encouragement of a girl forced to be like the boy and strive to achieve success, to obtain the approval. But this will not make her happy. Many women incorrectly educated, strive for achievement, a career, a great income, but feel even more marginalized and deprived of love”? The mind boggles that the desire for achievement is considered to be improper upbringing in 2012!
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Weight loss is acute not only for modern adults, but also to their children. Sedentary lifestyle, fast food, snacks without interrupting gadgets. And yet — the construction of almost a cult of the art of cooking with her Royal Highness FOOD, which a lot of gear on every television channel. And now, instead of walk, to play, to communicate with people (and children!) sitting, watching… and eating.
As parents to understand whether a child is overweight?
If an adult basic measure of excess weight is the body mass index (BMI) in children this method is not used, since the notion of the norm for them more flexible. In childhood and adolescence using the so-called “centile tables” or graphics (easy to find on the Internet) that allow parents to determine the deviation of weight, height and accordingly the body mass index of the child’s specific age and gender. The further parameters of the child deviates from the average, the more pronounced pathology.
At what age the child’s parents should pay special attention to his weight?
In the process of development of the baby fat in his body accumulates unevenly. He actively formed during the first 9 months of life, then comes the stabilization process, in 5-7 years Continue reading
The method allows to find out a complete and differentiated picture of parent-child relationships from the perspective of adolescents.
The test instruction
The text of the questionnaire in writing is preceded by the following statement: “This questionnaire contains a description of the various characteristics of the behavior of Your parents. Each statement is numbered. The same number is on the form for responses.
We ask you to evaluate how the behavior of Your parents conform with the descriptions. This reply is to put on the form for answers next to the numbers question, the corresponding score.
1 – if this behavior is not encountered Your father (mother) never ;
2 – if such behavior occurs in Your father’s (mother’s) rarely ;
3 – if such behavior occurs in Your father’s (mother’s) sometimes ;
4 – if such behavior occurs in Your father’s (mother’s) often ;
5 – if such behavior occurs in Your father’s (mother’s) always .
In questions Nos. 109-116 need to finish the phrase to form a special place.
We ask You to rate these statements first to the mother, and then, in another form, in relation to the father.”
Required observations :
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