Just to warn you that to take up the matter with the attitude “Oh, and difficult child I got in trouble!” is not worth it. Your task is not to remake it, but to help him open up . as a person. If the little man will grow in a comfortable and friendly environment, it is unlikely to have a desire to engage her in a conflict. A new consent will be provided.
To raise children-Indigo cautious with five “Golden” rules.
Rule # 1: Communicate
The phrase “Leave me alone, I don’t have time!” eliminate from your vocabulary once and for all. At least in relation to child-Indigo. It is very simple. Imagine that one day the child on all your requests and questions for him to answer exactly the same. Pleasant enough, isn’t it? Therefore it is better not to set a bad example. Your age superiority does not entitle you to speak with the child down. He is your continuation. Here and talk to him as you would talk to yourself. Learn to hear him, and he will learn to listen to you.
Talks with children-Indigo all your actions . If you’ve decided to take the child to the rink, describe in detail how you came up with such a wonderful idea. If you’re going to pull it from the computer, also try to find convincing arguments. Instead of the terrible cry of “just You wait Continue reading
In the last decade, computer – tera rapidly infiltrated into our lives. Imagine a modern person, who may, without prejudice to themselves, to distance themselves from the computer and the Internet, it is impossible. Today it has become customary to see that a person interacts with a com – pewter constantly – at work, at home, in the car and even on the plane. The computer is becoming an essential – part of modern life, not only adult but also children.
Many parents mistakenly believe that it’s better for the child sits at home on the computer in front of them than going out with the wrong crowd. Thus, the child receives a free and unrestricted access to the computer.
But the advent of computers, “provoked” the emergence and computer games, which immediately found a lot of fans among children and adults. Today, computer technology has reached a level of development that allows you to create very realistic game with good graphics, color and sound, which entails an increase in the number of people fanatically fond of computer games – gamers (from the English “game” – game).
Indeed, computer games have become a exciting activity for many preschoolers, schoolchildren, Continue reading
The effects of divorce on children affected by traumatic. One of the most difficult periods in the child’s life is to survive and go through the experience of his parents ‘ divorce. The effects of divorce may be different for children depending on their stage of development, age and gender, but children in any way affected before and after the divorce process.
When parents divorce, children feel the loss of stability and security, they may withdraw into themselves, based on attempts and desires to unite his parents, and when parents still disagree and all their experiences are either futile or unnoticed – children feel the loss of something very important . Something that was a mainstay of their lives, their world.
The effects of divorce on children’s feelings. What do you think our children?
Children may react quite differently to the impending divorce. In some cases, kids can be very sad, depressed and not even sleep at night. The reason for such a high alarm is that the child is afraid of being rejected, abandoned by one parent or even both . In some cases, children can feel very alone, especially when one parent is missing for a long time in the family home.