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Features of education girls

The girl should be quiet, economical and accurate, its merits – a docile and gentle nature, and the main objective – to marry well, become a model housewife and have children. And this is not a description of the methods of education of the Middle ages – this Patriarchal realities of modern Ukraine, where the girls forget to tell that they’re individuals and can build your life, career and family, not being dependent on men. Therapist of Leonid Semakov believes that in this way one of the girls raise free staff.

The middle ages in 2012

When I was preparing for an interview on this topic, to be honest, I doubt that the problem of educating girls in a Patriarchal style now just as relevant as, for example, 30 years ago. But was unpleasantly surprised to find many tips for raising girls frankly humiliating display. For example, how about this: “Educating a girl can do without such approvals as “good”, “well done”, “clever”. Such words of encouragement of a girl forced to be like the boy and strive to achieve success, to obtain the approval. But this will not make her happy. Many women incorrectly educated, strive for achievement, a career, a great income, but feel even more marginalized and deprived of love”? The mind boggles that the desire for achievement is considered to be improper upbringing in 2012!

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Styles of child rearing.

Raising children can be different, because there are so many different styles of parenting recognized and not quite. Most often we bring up our children in the same spirit in which we were educated in the family parents. When they become parents themselves, and knowing about all the shortcomings in their education, we are like puppets, we repeat the same mistakes on their own children. Look at these most common styles of parenting, you may recognize in this list your family archetype.

You’d think people who were brought up by liberal parents, absolutely happy. Who wouldn’t want to have parents who can’t sleep tonight as long as you wish, and in the morning, on the contrary, to sleep it off before dinner; go to any parties and events without even asking when the baby will come back; they don’t even mind guys stay in your room and never come to your office without knocking. Alas, people who grew up in such families the lucky ones yourself do not. The problem is that children need boundaries, if not to give them guidelines of what is permitted and not permitted, they become overly spoiled and often don’t know at what point should stop. Talking with a friend who grew Continue reading

How to talk with your child about drugs? “

Remember that You matter to Your child. He sees everything You do, say and act. Your personal example, timely and appropriate spoken word plays a huge role.

Teach the child the first years of life, what fate awaits him, if he commits a crime, become a drug addict.

Help Your children to understand information about drugs and drug abuse. Choose appropriate literature review of available information and try to bring it to the consciousness of the child in casual conversation, while watching television or during joint reading of Newspapers, magazines, books.

Always try to listen, encourage his desire to ask questions. Answer the questions with interest, think aloud, do not fear to admit their doubts and even misunderstanding of certain aspects. Teach your kids to have a dialogue, because it will help You to maintain contact with them throughout the growth period.

Make Your home open and welcoming to Your children’s friends. Participate whenever possible in discussing their issues. Maintain and, where possible, and participate in their Continue reading

The influence of parents on children.
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The Effects of divorce for children
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How to raise children-Indigo?
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