In the last decade, computer – tera rapidly infiltrated into our lives. Imagine a modern person, who may, without prejudice to themselves, to distance themselves from the computer and the Internet, it is impossible. Today it has become customary to see that a person interacts with a com – pewter constantly – at work, at home, in the car and even on the plane. The computer is becoming an essential – part of modern life, not only adult but also children.
Many parents mistakenly believe that it’s better for the child sits at home on the computer in front of them than going out with the wrong crowd. Thus, the child receives a free and unrestricted access to the computer.
But the advent of computers, “provoked” the emergence and computer games, which immediately found a lot of fans among children and adults. Today, computer technology has reached a level of development that allows you to create very realistic game with good graphics, color and sound, which entails an increase in the number of people fanatically fond of computer games – gamers (from the English “game” – game).
Indeed, computer games have become a exciting activity for many preschoolers, schoolchildren, Continue reading
Children’s and adult psychologists for many years engaged in the study of the influence roditelskogo education on the lives of children. A direct causal link between parents ‘ and children’s behavior can be difficult to install. Often found that in different circumstances grow people with similar personal characteristics, and in the same family can grow strikingly different children.
Anyway, many traits of an adult is laid in his childhood, and depend on a huge number of factors, including individual characteristics of the child, society, popular culture and so on. In the so-called “pure” parenting techniques are not used, and in the same family can often use techniques from different methods.
Basic parenting styles
The style is characterized by high expectations of parents regarding their children. Children must follow strict rules unquestioningly, punishment is used often and they are rarely distinguished from the discipline. The usual explanation of the parent requirements: “Because I said so (a)”. Love, respect and warm relationships to children in an authoritarian family to wait for a difficult choice, ranging from toys to their future profession, Continue reading
Children breaking from toys, soft, wooden, educational, buzzing, squeaking, singing, table, and a child no attention to all this wealth. Parents do it to buy new, but once in the store, immediately give up under the onslaught of a pair of pleading eyes. And then wonder on the forums on the Internet: “Why is my child likes to play with toys, I may not choose those gifts. ”
I myself, when choosing a gift for the youngest son’s first birthday, faced with an almost impossible task – what to give? I tried to control, though not always successfully, toy boom close and distant relatives, making for them a list of desired purchases. Anyway, the apartment has become a warehouse of toys, and a Junior from the cradle already played not only in rattles and musical pots, but in cars, LEGO and guns. At that time, I came across a box with the usual wooden cubes, bought them almost out of desperation. The cubes were a hit last year in our family, first the older and then younger Mature enough to play cubes-men and the dice-the letter.
“How often does your child new toys? – refers to soobschnitsami in the children’s forum young mother. – My husband and I some thing in this matter, not played enough in childhood. Buy like two fools, so much that these dolls and designers soon we will be evicted Continue reading