To start, answer this simple question. If your parents were ordinary people, not members of a family, for example, a work colleague, or neighbor in the apartment, we would support you with them a friendly, warm relationship? If YES, then quit, because this article is not for you. If not, and back to ask me: – if you can’t love your parents, whether you WANT them to love? If you want to love, but can’t, then I ask you – why do you need to love them? Yes, for what?
Maybe for what you NEED them to love? But if so, who needs? If you are, then WHY NEED to love someone? Maybe because it made? But by WHOM TAKEN? WHO IS THIS “SOMEONE”? Can a society? If so, remember at least five people approving it. Personally I can’t think of one person. If you still find five people, it is definitely not the company, for a total of five people.
The fifth commandment of Moses: “Honour thy father and thy mother: that thy days may be long upon the land which the Lord thy God giveth thee”, says it is about the respect for parents that can be regarded by people as, “love your parents”, and to form public opinion. If so, then love and respect, not quite the same concept. For example, I can respect, but not love. But, if I love, and respect at the same time.
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Child stealing is a quite common problem, frightening for any parent who is faced with it. Although almost any child, including their own parents in childhood, at least once took someone else’s, adults usually tend to panic if it happens to their child.
There are several reasons why children steal:
If it’s a small child, 3-4 years, usually he doesn’t understand boundaries, where my, where someone else. In this age of child stealing cannot even be called such a term, because the child is not aware of property boundaries.
Not high enough self-esteem of the child. This child thinks that the other is always better.
The motivation is to attract the attention of peers: the child has no relations with peers in kindergarten, at school, in the yard, and the child, finding no other solution, you may take the money and buy a variety of sweets, treat all these friends, getting the attention and recognition he so wanted and waited. Typically, these thefts tend to make children 6-8 years of age and adolescents.
Theft may be a way of self-affirmation of the child, and this is also a signal of distress, when the child does not feel enough love of parents towards him or even each other.
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Baby, fast asleep all night, awake and alert mom… This is not a dream.
Gwyneth Paltrow says that her baby started sleeping through the night since 6 weeks. We will not investigate how this information is true, but a sleepless night most parents – an undeniable fact.
We will try to understand in what the reason and if it’s that bad, really?
Consultants will be made by authoritative experts: Peter Fleming, Professor of the University of Bristol, specializing in health and psychological development of children and Darcia F. Nerves, Professor of psychology at the University Norms the Ladies.
Why do children Wake up? Because there can be no
Nature is not provided for a long period of sleep for the person as such. And there is no evidence of positive effects on the body long sleep.
Even adults don’t sleep through the night
An adult during their 8 hours of necessary sleep will also periodically wakes up. Effect of fatigue and a busy day on the eve of consciousness is not always captures these revivals, and we can simply not remember.
A human child is born before any other plecoptera and in dire need of close contact with the “external uterus”
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