The girl should be quiet, economical and accurate, its merits – a docile and gentle nature, and the main objective – to marry well, become a model housewife and have children. And this is not a description of the methods of education of the Middle ages – this Patriarchal realities of modern Ukraine, where the girls forget to tell that they’re individuals and can build your life, career and family, not being dependent on men. Therapist of Leonid Semakov believes that in this way one of the girls raise free staff.
The middle ages in 2012
When I was preparing for an interview on this topic, to be honest, I doubt that the problem of educating girls in a Patriarchal style now just as relevant as, for example, 30 years ago. But was unpleasantly surprised to find many tips for raising girls frankly humiliating display. For example, how about this: “Educating a girl can do without such approvals as “good”, “well done”, “clever”. Such words of encouragement of a girl forced to be like the boy and strive to achieve success, to obtain the approval. But this will not make her happy. Many women incorrectly educated, strive for achievement, a career, a great income, but feel even more marginalized and deprived of love”? The mind boggles that the desire for achievement is considered to be improper upbringing in 2012!
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Esoteric science does not consider every born child of a newly created soul. Although tiny body is really created again, but animates his life became individualization thousands of years ago, and gained life experience determines the characteristic features of a new personality is exactly the same as the sum of causes set in motion in previous lives, and defines the conditions in which it occurs the new birth.
If parents create a good environment for children, which I hope to have, then they can incarnate the soul of the highest type. This is the essence of the esoteric conception of the relationship between parent and child. Parents open a channel through which the soul can get a new incarnation and thus to advance in its evolution, and the act will be counted parents in the great account of fate.
From this concept derives the result where you want to stay, read more, although it is not directly linked to the subject of esoteric sex.
Since all we affect the lives of those with whom you come into contact, bringing them good or evil, we all are the executors of the will of fate, for giving debts made in previous lives. If we do good to other people, thus we have, according to the causal law, for themselves and sow the seeds of goodness, we will reap a harvest if not in this Continue reading
Children’s and adult psychologists for many years engaged in the study of the influence roditelskogo education on the lives of children. A direct causal link between parents ‘ and children’s behavior can be difficult to install. Often found that in different circumstances grow people with similar personal characteristics, and in the same family can grow strikingly different children.
Anyway, many traits of an adult is laid in his childhood, and depend on a huge number of factors, including individual characteristics of the child, society, popular culture and so on. In the so-called “pure” parenting techniques are not used, and in the same family can often use techniques from different methods.
Basic parenting styles
The style is characterized by high expectations of parents regarding their children. Children must follow strict rules unquestioningly, punishment is used often and they are rarely distinguished from the discipline. The usual explanation of the parent requirements: “Because I said so (a)”. Love, respect and warm relationships to children in an authoritarian family to wait for a difficult choice, ranging from toys to their future profession, Continue reading