When the child is small, he doesn’t do any work. About his food, clothing and the like concerned parents. Parents help their child with love. The child does not work — he can do only a little job around the house. But how this work compares with the work or the costs that parents do it for him? If, as an adult, the child does not understand what his parents gave him, it is a great ingratitude.
Before parents punish the child’s physical, and he took corporal punishment without thoughts [resentment]. Often he doesn’t even know what hit them. But the children of today — this is one big “why and what for?”. One continuous wrangling. They lack simplicity. Everything they are subjected to judgment and evaluation. But the divine Grace in this way does not come. If the child does not feel his father’s father and does not accept his father’s punishment, he — illegal child. Some children, only parents to make them a little note, immediately begin to threaten: “I’ll slit my wrists!” And what can parents do? They are inferior, and ultimately children deteriorate and die.
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Just to warn you that to take up the matter with the attitude “Oh, and difficult child I got in trouble!” is not worth it. Your task is not to remake it, but to help him open up . as a person. If the little man will grow in a comfortable and friendly environment, it is unlikely to have a desire to engage her in a conflict. A new consent will be provided.
To raise children-Indigo cautious with five “Golden” rules.
Rule # 1: Communicate
The phrase “Leave me alone, I don’t have time!” eliminate from your vocabulary once and for all. At least in relation to child-Indigo. It is very simple. Imagine that one day the child on all your requests and questions for him to answer exactly the same. Pleasant enough, isn’t it? Therefore it is better not to set a bad example. Your age superiority does not entitle you to speak with the child down. He is your continuation. Here and talk to him as you would talk to yourself. Learn to hear him, and he will learn to listen to you.
Talks with children-Indigo all your actions . If you’ve decided to take the child to the rink, describe in detail how you came up with such a wonderful idea. If you’re going to pull it from the computer, also try to find convincing arguments. Instead of the terrible cry of “just You wait Continue reading
The effects of divorce on children affected by traumatic. One of the most difficult periods in the child’s life is to survive and go through the experience of his parents ‘ divorce. The effects of divorce may be different for children depending on their stage of development, age and gender, but children in any way affected before and after the divorce process.
When parents divorce, children feel the loss of stability and security, they may withdraw into themselves, based on attempts and desires to unite his parents, and when parents still disagree and all their experiences are either futile or unnoticed – children feel the loss of something very important . Something that was a mainstay of their lives, their world.
The effects of divorce on children’s feelings. What do you think our children?
Children may react quite differently to the impending divorce. In some cases, kids can be very sad, depressed and not even sleep at night. The reason for such a high alarm is that the child is afraid of being rejected, abandoned by one parent or even both . In some cases, children can feel very alone, especially when one parent is missing for a long time in the family home.