When the child is small, he doesn’t do any work. About his food, clothing and the like concerned parents. Parents help their child with love. The child does not work — he can do only a little job around the house. But how this work compares with the work or the costs that parents do it for him? If, as an adult, the child does not understand what his parents gave him, it is a great ingratitude.
Before parents punish the child’s physical, and he took corporal punishment without thoughts [resentment]. Often he doesn’t even know what hit them. But the children of today — this is one big “why and what for?”. One continuous wrangling. They lack simplicity. Everything they are subjected to judgment and evaluation. But the divine Grace in this way does not come. If the child does not feel his father’s father and does not accept his father’s punishment, he — illegal child. Some children, only parents to make them a little note, immediately begin to threaten: “I’ll slit my wrists!” And what can parents do? They are inferior, and ultimately children deteriorate and die.
The child must understand that if sometimes Continue reading
Educate a girl in something easier than a boy, but something more complicated. And if earlier it was clear that we need to raise a girl as a future wife, mother and housewife, the current realities require a woman to stand on their own feet. At that Orient girl: a family or a career? What to prepare: to be sensitive flower or impenetrable wall? In either case, she needs to educate femininity.
Recently at work I heard from one young mom the following: “I did not want to raise a daughter feminine – so much suffering and heavy then she will! I know I did. “Amazing? Yes, initially I thought so. But I’m not rushed into an argument with his friend, who began to argue that it is not properly raised, and began to think calmly. Why did she do that? After all, femininity is the main female quality and it is always appreciated, especially among the representatives of the stronger sex. But. in today’s world a woman should be strong and independent and increasingly girls are brought up in the spirit of feminism and independence, trying to target baby for career growth and leadership.
Of course, by the nature of his daughter’s qualities such as tenderness and femininity, you won’t necessarily make her weak-willed homebody, all catering to her husband. Developing my baby feminine qualities, you will be able to get a good housewife, loving mother, gentle and loving Continue reading
You took the first step in the approximation to the semantic concept of “seven I”.
But just at this moment the family and can start to crumble, because the birth of a child is not only joy, but also great stress.
Quiet good life of the spouses becomes a small nightmare of sleepless nights, worries about the baby, Laundry, cooking. With bruises under my eyes from chronic sleep deprivation and chronic fatigue has been rolled up mother impatiently met returning to work the same, tired and apprehensive to approach her own child dad. Familiar picture?
Further more, the mother tries to go to work or becoming a freelancer, trying to make something at home, the child, of course, requires attention, and my dad watches TV and requires to reason with the child. On the horizon begins to ignite the flames of the coming scandal, if not divorce. Why is it so? How to get through this period and keep the family together?
It turns out because rarely what the family is ready for such a serious restructuring of family life which requires the appearance of the child. After all, even on the background of some General obligations (family, cooking, Laundry, shopping), each spouse could carry out their plans and easy to manage my time. With the new baby, time to myself is desperately Continue reading