The effects of divorce on children affected by traumatic. One of the most difficult periods in the child’s life is to survive and go through the experience of his parents ‘ divorce. The effects of divorce may be different for children depending on their stage of development, age and gender, but children in any way affected before and after the divorce process.
When parents divorce, children feel the loss of stability and security, they may withdraw into themselves, based on attempts and desires to unite his parents, and when parents still disagree and all their experiences are either futile or unnoticed – children feel the loss of something very important . Something that was a mainstay of their lives, their world.
The effects of divorce on children’s feelings. What do you think our children?
Children may react quite differently to the impending divorce. In some cases, kids can be very sad, depressed and not even sleep at night. The reason for such a high alarm is that the child is afraid of being rejected, abandoned by one parent or even both . In some cases, children can feel very alone, especially when one parent is missing for a long time in the family home.
Raising children can be different, because there are so many different styles of parenting recognized and not quite. Most often we bring up our children in the same spirit in which we were educated in the family parents. When they become parents themselves, and knowing about all the shortcomings in their education, we are like puppets, we repeat the same mistakes on their own children. Look at these most common styles of parenting, you may recognize in this list your family archetype.
You’d think people who were brought up by liberal parents, absolutely happy. Who wouldn’t want to have parents who can’t sleep tonight as long as you wish, and in the morning, on the contrary, to sleep it off before dinner; go to any parties and events without even asking when the baby will come back; they don’t even mind guys stay in your room and never come to your office without knocking. Alas, people who grew up in such families the lucky ones yourself do not. The problem is that children need boundaries, if not to give them guidelines of what is permitted and not permitted, they become overly spoiled and often don’t know at what point should stop. Talking with a friend who grew Continue reading
The method allows to find out a complete and differentiated picture of parent-child relationships from the perspective of adolescents.
The test instruction
The text of the questionnaire in writing is preceded by the following statement: “This questionnaire contains a description of the various characteristics of the behavior of Your parents. Each statement is numbered. The same number is on the form for responses.
We ask you to evaluate how the behavior of Your parents conform with the descriptions. This reply is to put on the form for answers next to the numbers question, the corresponding score.
1 – if this behavior is not encountered Your father (mother) never ;
2 – if such behavior occurs in Your father’s (mother’s) rarely ;
3 – if such behavior occurs in Your father’s (mother’s) sometimes ;
4 – if such behavior occurs in Your father’s (mother’s) often ;
5 – if such behavior occurs in Your father’s (mother’s) always .
In questions Nos. 109-116 need to finish the phrase to form a special place.
We ask You to rate these statements first to the mother, and then, in another form, in relation to the father.”
Required observations :
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