According to demographer A. G. Volkov, among preschool children every tenth child is brought up by one parent, and among children of school age — one in seven. Today among single-parent families remain the most common “parent” of the family. However, more and more increases and the number of families with single fathers. How does the incompleteness of the family on the emotional health of the child? What can be associated implicit and explicit educational risk single-parent families and how to cope with them?
Each parent families — a story. This family arises in connection with the widowhood of a parent, divorce, and nonmarital birth.
No matter how tragic the formation of single-parent families due to the early death of a parent, her educational atmosphere is considered to be more favourable compared to previous versions. Especially if you keep the old family ties that provide emotional support and compensate for the lack of communication, and the remaining parent has the respect and help of family and friends.
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Children’s Masturbation: norm or pathology?
You caught your child playing with genitals? You were so shocked and appalled that he did not know how to respond? What it is: a fun, promiscuity or illness?
About the dangers of children’s onanism (Masturbation) lots of talk, mostly unfounded.
Before, the baby begins to explore all parts of his body. He does not understand that the body has “forbidden” places. If we remind him about it, his curiosity increases, and can turn into a pathological habit.
Often Masturbation is characteristic of active children, “slowpokes” just suck your thumb or the edge of the blanket.
Usually parents are too embarrassed to seek advice from professionals. While Your wrong reaction can harm, maim the child’s life.
How to respond to children’s Masturbation?
First of all, if You ever caught your child for a lesson in Masturbation, no need to faint or scream, stomp their feet.
Requires endurance and tact. If it’s a small child, try calmly, without emotion to shift his attention to something else.
With school-age children also need to be calm, to talk about it when he’ll be able to listen to You. But in any case, do not scold the child, and do not be intimidated!
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Many children go through a period – between two and four years – when the beats and biting is a form of communication, often the only one to Express this or that in their condition, for example: “I am angry”, or “I want this”. Not having even the power of speech and, thus, not knowing how else to Express their wishes and requests, they tend to resort to using his fists or sharp baby teeth.
Despite the fact that this is a normal stage of child development, such aggressiveness can turn into a habit. Children who, growing up, learn to suppress their aggression and to communicate with others using oral speech, often become real fighters. Through the fights, the children can produce their own things to which they aspire, but it will make them outcasts in the children’s company and other kids will be afraid of them.
If your child is in this phase of development, he may soon pass her. To bring this point (and to help protect other children!), you can use the tips that will help your child get rid of aggressive habits.
If you see your child, not yet begun to walk to school, hit another, first go to his sacrifice. Raise a hurt child and say, “Igor didn’t want to hurt you”. Then hug him, Continue reading
When the child is small, he doesn’t do any work. About his food, clothing and the like concerned parents. Parents help their child with love. The child does not work — he can do only a little job around the house. But how this work compares with the work or the costs that parents do it for him? If, as an adult, the child does not understand what his parents gave him, it is a great ingratitude.
Before parents punish the child’s physical, and he took corporal punishment without thoughts [resentment]. Often he doesn’t even know what hit them. But the children of today — this is one big “why and what for?”. One continuous wrangling. They lack simplicity. Everything they are subjected to judgment and evaluation. But the divine Grace in this way does not come. If the child does not feel his father’s father and does not accept his father’s punishment, he — illegal child. Some children, only parents to make them a little note, immediately begin to threaten: “I’ll slit my wrists!” And what can parents do? They are inferior, and ultimately children deteriorate and die.
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During the day, than only the mother is not engaged with the child and walk, and rest, and eat, and talk. But still the main activity for children in their second year of life is a game. While playing, the baby develops, learns, himself in this world. Therefore, the main objective of mom is to help the child to fill in every item of his knowledge of the game.
We offer you the following games with your child at home.
Pour-pour. Spread a blanket on the floor, put on his child. Give it a different capacity and that he will pour (various grits, small rocks, buttons). Show him how to scoop, pour, mix cereals. Let him enjoy it. Without spreading too not do, but what is the use for little fingers. However, watch out for the baby, not let’s take things in their mouth.
Yoke-horse . Small children love to ride on the backs of their dad. Try out horse riding in the apartment. Don’t forget to ask the rider to hold on tight.
Fun boxes . Do not rush to throw out your old boxes. They can be a great material for toddler. It may invest in various objects, toys. Rattle closed bolls, listen to how they sound. Please note the child that large items do not fit in a small box. Let the child puts one box to another. Eventually he will realize that the biggest box you need to put down. Each cover Continue reading