And the child is only growing. And this behavior – this is the next stage of maturation, during which he will realize that there is a his and others that such generosity and greed. The kid defines the boundaries of its “I” and everything that falls under the definition of “Mine” is a continuation of his person, and accordingly belongs unconditionally to him.
Let us understand how better to do and what you need to do in order not to raise a selfish and greedy man.
Has the right not to share
Baby, though small, but personality. And he is quite right not to share what he is presented with personally. For him toys, things that you have mentioned as his personal – it is very dear to his little heart treasures. And now imagine the horror he experiences whenever he is forced to share? It is forced to – I specifically used that word. It’s one thing when a child gives itself, another thing, when under the pressure of parental authority we force the child.
Greed – it is a kind of attempt to defend their right to something when the other person in this country. And if the child all the time to make – you are guaranteed to shape it. Believe me, the mere possession of the treasure – it’s boring. And baby it’ll eventually understand how and what to play in the company Continue reading
The girl should be quiet, economical and accurate, its merits – a docile and gentle nature, and the main objective – to marry well, become a model housewife and have children. And this is not a description of the methods of education of the Middle ages – this Patriarchal realities of modern Ukraine, where the girls forget to tell that they’re individuals and can build your life, career and family, not being dependent on men. Therapist of Leonid Semakov believes that in this way one of the girls raise free staff.
The middle ages in 2012
When I was preparing for an interview on this topic, to be honest, I doubt that the problem of educating girls in a Patriarchal style now just as relevant as, for example, 30 years ago. But was unpleasantly surprised to find many tips for raising girls frankly humiliating display. For example, how about this: “Educating a girl can do without such approvals as “good”, “well done”, “clever”. Such words of encouragement of a girl forced to be like the boy and strive to achieve success, to obtain the approval. But this will not make her happy. Many women incorrectly educated, strive for achievement, a career, a great income, but feel even more marginalized and deprived of love”? The mind boggles that the desire for achievement is considered to be improper upbringing in 2012!
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There horoscope compatibility between two people, which in astrology is called an overlay. Mainly this horoscope book lovers who are going to marry, or couples who have lived together for any part of life and suddenly decided to divorce. Here without horoscope compatibility is simply not enough. But how often do we think, what is the compatibility of parents and children?
Compatibility of parents and children
And here already from problems not to go anywhere, because often we not only take care of the baby, but he educates us, forcing us to reconsider and his character and his worldview. There is a saying: “the Miracle is not that adults do to children, and that children do adults.”
Astropsychology in recent years, more attention is paid to parent-child relationships. This is because for every parent’s child is the most valuable and important in life. We are ready to sacrifice all for his happiness and welfare. That’s why suddenly arising problems in the relationship with their child has raised questions about their causes.
The more that modern life with its hectic pace, lack of stability and confidence in the future contribute to this. From the point of view of astrology, parents and children meet each other on the path of life in order to help better understand and improve themselves.
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Raising children can be different, because there are so many different styles of parenting recognized and not quite. Most often we bring up our children in the same spirit in which we were educated in the family parents. When they become parents themselves, and knowing about all the shortcomings in their education, we are like puppets, we repeat the same mistakes on their own children. Look at these most common styles of parenting, you may recognize in this list your family archetype.
You’d think people who were brought up by liberal parents, absolutely happy. Who wouldn’t want to have parents who can’t sleep tonight as long as you wish, and in the morning, on the contrary, to sleep it off before dinner; go to any parties and events without even asking when the baby will come back; they don’t even mind guys stay in your room and never come to your office without knocking. Alas, people who grew up in such families the lucky ones yourself do not. The problem is that children need boundaries, if not to give them guidelines of what is permitted and not permitted, they become overly spoiled and often don’t know at what point should stop. Talking with a friend who grew Continue reading
Weight loss is acute not only for modern adults, but also to their children. Sedentary lifestyle, fast food, snacks without interrupting gadgets. And yet — the construction of almost a cult of the art of cooking with her Royal Highness FOOD, which a lot of gear on every television channel. And now, instead of walk, to play, to communicate with people (and children!) sitting, watching… and eating.
As parents to understand whether a child is overweight?
If an adult basic measure of excess weight is the body mass index (BMI) in children this method is not used, since the notion of the norm for them more flexible. In childhood and adolescence using the so-called “centile tables” or graphics (easy to find on the Internet) that allow parents to determine the deviation of weight, height and accordingly the body mass index of the child’s specific age and gender. The further parameters of the child deviates from the average, the more pronounced pathology.
At what age the child’s parents should pay special attention to his weight?
In the process of development of the baby fat in his body accumulates unevenly. He actively formed during the first 9 months of life, then comes the stabilization process, in 5-7 years Continue reading