When the child is small, he doesn’t do any work. About his food, clothing and the like concerned parents. Parents help their child with love. The child does not work — he can do only a little job around the house. But how this work compares with the work or the costs that parents do it for him? If, as an adult, the child does not understand what his parents gave him, it is a great ingratitude.
Before parents punish the child’s physical, and he took corporal punishment without thoughts [resentment]. Often he doesn’t even know what hit them. But the children of today — this is one big “why and what for?”. One continuous wrangling. They lack simplicity. Everything they are subjected to judgment and evaluation. But the divine Grace in this way does not come. If the child does not feel his father’s father and does not accept his father’s punishment, he — illegal child. Some children, only parents to make them a little note, immediately begin to threaten: “I’ll slit my wrists!” And what can parents do? They are inferior, and ultimately children deteriorate and die.
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During the day, than only the mother is not engaged with the child and walk, and rest, and eat, and talk. But still the main activity for children in their second year of life is a game. While playing, the baby develops, learns, himself in this world. Therefore, the main objective of mom is to help the child to fill in every item of his knowledge of the game.
We offer you the following games with your child at home.
Pour-pour. Spread a blanket on the floor, put on his child. Give it a different capacity and that he will pour (various grits, small rocks, buttons). Show him how to scoop, pour, mix cereals. Let him enjoy it. Without spreading too not do, but what is the use for little fingers. However, watch out for the baby, not let’s take things in their mouth.
Yoke-horse . Small children love to ride on the backs of their dad. Try out horse riding in the apartment. Don’t forget to ask the rider to hold on tight.
Fun boxes . Do not rush to throw out your old boxes. They can be a great material for toddler. It may invest in various objects, toys. Rattle closed bolls, listen to how they sound. Please note the child that large items do not fit in a small box. Let the child puts one box to another. Eventually he will realize that the biggest box you need to put down. Each cover Continue reading
Often watching as a child addicted to a computer game, parents are sounding the alarm and wonder, will affect whether computer games negatively on the psyche of a teenager? Are they able to cause computer addiction? Whether it is necessary to forbid the child to play? The situation clarifies psychologist Julia Donets.
– Julia, you have about 7 years in private practice. How often do you turn to parents with the problem of computer addiction in the child?
– Any addiction – it is the escape of a person from solutions to life’s challenges that he faced. Actually appeals to psychotherapists with symptoms of computer addiction can be counted on the fingers. According to statistics, in the face of serious difficulties, children and adolescents are more likely to resort to alcohol and drugs, and not the computer.
– Why alcohol and drugs remain in first place in solving teenage problems?
The alcohol helps the teenager to return to an earlier stage of development in which he couldn’t care less about me, and he has a right not to be responsible for anything in his life, shifting responsibility to others. The computer gives the same level of regression, which is called alcohol and drugs.
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