Just to warn you that to take up the matter with the attitude “Oh, and difficult child I got in trouble!” is not worth it. Your task is not to remake it, but to help him open up . as a person. If the little man will grow in a comfortable and friendly environment, it is unlikely to have a desire to engage her in a conflict. A new consent will be provided.
To raise children-Indigo cautious with five “Golden” rules.
Rule # 1: Communicate
The phrase “Leave me alone, I don’t have time!” eliminate from your vocabulary once and for all. At least in relation to child-Indigo. It is very simple. Imagine that one day the child on all your requests and questions for him to answer exactly the same. Pleasant enough, isn’t it? Therefore it is better not to set a bad example. Your age superiority does not entitle you to speak with the child down. He is your continuation. Here and talk to him as you would talk to yourself. Learn to hear him, and he will learn to listen to you.
Talks with children-Indigo all your actions . If you’ve decided to take the child to the rink, describe in detail how you came up with such a wonderful idea. If you’re going to pull it from the computer, also try to find convincing arguments. Instead of the terrible cry of “just You wait Continue reading
For the successful upbringing of the younger generation, it is important to be surrounded by an atmosphere of respect for the moral norms of behavior of This reach, provided that in the educational process in the school, except teachers, take in the participation of parents, community organizations, law enforcement agencies and other state uchrezhdeniye.
The school is able to attract to educational work with students, their parents, some of which can guide the work of the interest groups, because among them there are people of different professions, or to take the patronage of Uch CNAME who have a particular interest in a particular branch of knowledge, to mentor pedagogically neglected children Parents can participate in with students excursions to the enterprises according to the profile subject.
To determine the possibility of attracting parents to educational work with students at the parent meeting class offers a small form: “What would You be able to help you What kind of extracurricular iovnu work You’d like to do at school? “On the basis of the responses received will organise the work of the relevant sections, which is headed by Otari.
Significant assistance in the education of pupilsand parent have parent committees .
Often watching as a child addicted to a computer game, parents are sounding the alarm and wonder, will affect whether computer games negatively on the psyche of a teenager? Are they able to cause computer addiction? Whether it is necessary to forbid the child to play? The situation clarifies psychologist Julia Donets.
– Julia, you have about 7 years in private practice. How often do you turn to parents with the problem of computer addiction in the child?
– Any addiction – it is the escape of a person from solutions to life’s challenges that he faced. Actually appeals to psychotherapists with symptoms of computer addiction can be counted on the fingers. According to statistics, in the face of serious difficulties, children and adolescents are more likely to resort to alcohol and drugs, and not the computer.
– Why alcohol and drugs remain in first place in solving teenage problems?
The alcohol helps the teenager to return to an earlier stage of development in which he couldn’t care less about me, and he has a right not to be responsible for anything in his life, shifting responsibility to others. The computer gives the same level of regression, which is called alcohol and drugs.
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