Parents should be aware that sexual, sexual, parenting preschoolers, school children and adolescents — the need for a healthy psychosexual development of the child, for the formation of psychologically and emotionally Mature person.
However, most parents, because of their own upbringing, strongly ignore if you don’t confront, early sex and sexual education of children, which, in turn, can lead to incomplete and sometimes distorted and inadequate development of a person’s identity, including gender and sexual development.
Not hard to guess where sex and sexual deviations. perversion, sexual orientation, early and unexpected pregnancy. venereal diseases, impotence and frigidity. abortions and miscarriages, single mothers, abandoned children, and finally, the fall of the demographics, and what’s worse, the gradual disappearance of the intellectual and creative resources of the person.
Primary cause: improper upbringing in the family, including the lack of adequate gender and sexual education of children of preschool age .
Sex education for children preschoolers
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The effects of divorce on children affected by traumatic. One of the most difficult periods in the child’s life is to survive and go through the experience of his parents ‘ divorce. The effects of divorce may be different for children depending on their stage of development, age and gender, but children in any way affected before and after the divorce process.
When parents divorce, children feel the loss of stability and security, they may withdraw into themselves, based on attempts and desires to unite his parents, and when parents still disagree and all their experiences are either futile or unnoticed – children feel the loss of something very important . Something that was a mainstay of their lives, their world.
The effects of divorce on children’s feelings. What do you think our children?
Children may react quite differently to the impending divorce. In some cases, kids can be very sad, depressed and not even sleep at night. The reason for such a high alarm is that the child is afraid of being rejected, abandoned by one parent or even both . In some cases, children can feel very alone, especially when one parent is missing for a long time in the family home.
The girl should be quiet, economical and accurate, its merits – a docile and gentle nature, and the main objective – to marry well, become a model housewife and have children. And this is not a description of the methods of education of the Middle ages – this Patriarchal realities of modern Ukraine, where the girls forget to tell that they’re individuals and can build your life, career and family, not being dependent on men. Therapist of Leonid Semakov believes that in this way one of the girls raise free staff.
The middle ages in 2012
When I was preparing for an interview on this topic, to be honest, I doubt that the problem of educating girls in a Patriarchal style now just as relevant as, for example, 30 years ago. But was unpleasantly surprised to find many tips for raising girls frankly humiliating display. For example, how about this: “Educating a girl can do without such approvals as “good”, “well done”, “clever”. Such words of encouragement of a girl forced to be like the boy and strive to achieve success, to obtain the approval. But this will not make her happy. Many women incorrectly educated, strive for achievement, a career, a great income, but feel even more marginalized and deprived of love”? The mind boggles that the desire for achievement is considered to be improper upbringing in 2012!
One of the girls Continue reading