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How to overcome the dependence of the child from computer games

Often watching as a child addicted to a computer game, parents are sounding the alarm and wonder, will affect whether computer games negatively on the psyche of a teenager? Are they able to cause computer addiction? Whether it is necessary to forbid the child to play? The situation clarifies psychologist Julia Donets.

– Julia, you have about 7 years in private practice. How often do you turn to parents with the problem of computer addiction in the child?

– Any addiction – it is the escape of a person from solutions to life’s challenges that he faced. Actually appeals to psychotherapists with symptoms of computer addiction can be counted on the fingers. According to statistics, in the face of serious difficulties, children and adolescents are more likely to resort to alcohol and drugs, and not the computer.

– Why alcohol and drugs remain in first place in solving teenage problems?

The alcohol helps the teenager to return to an earlier stage of development in which he couldn’t care less about me, and he has a right not to be responsible for anything in his life, shifting responsibility to others. The computer gives the same level of regression, which is called alcohol and drugs.

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The Passion for computer games is in trouble or blessing?

In the last decade, computer – tera rapidly infiltrated into our lives. Imagine a modern person, who may, without prejudice to themselves, to distance themselves from the computer and the Internet, it is impossible. Today it has become customary to see that a person interacts with a com – pewter constantly – at work, at home, in the car and even on the plane. The computer is becoming an essential – part of modern life, not only adult but also children.

Many parents mistakenly believe that it’s better for the child sits at home on the computer in front of them than going out with the wrong crowd. Thus, the child receives a free and unrestricted access to the computer.

But the advent of computers, “provoked” the emergence and computer games, which immediately found a lot of fans among children and adults. Today, computer technology has reached a level of development that allows you to create very realistic game with good graphics, color and sound, which entails an increase in the number of people fanatically fond of computer games – gamers (from the English “game” – game).

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Cause sleepless nights or Why Your baby doesn’t sleep through the night

Baby, fast asleep all night, awake and alert mom… This is not a dream.

Gwyneth Paltrow says that her baby started sleeping through the night since 6 weeks. We will not investigate how this information is true, but a sleepless night most parents – an undeniable fact.

We will try to understand in what the reason and if it’s that bad, really?

Consultants will be made by authoritative experts: Peter Fleming, Professor of the University of Bristol, specializing in health and psychological development of children and Darcia F. Nerves, Professor of psychology at the University Norms the Ladies.

Why do children Wake up? Because there can be no

Nature is not provided for a long period of sleep for the person as such. And there is no evidence of positive effects on the body long sleep.

Even adults don’t sleep through the night

An adult during their 8 hours of necessary sleep will also periodically wakes up. Effect of fatigue and a busy day on the eve of consciousness is not always captures these revivals, and we can simply not remember.

A human child is born before any other plecoptera and in dire need of close contact with the “external uterus”

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